Being a dating coach, I often hear ladies declare they are DONE settling for the wrong guy and a bad relationship. Actually, I’m glad to hear that. But here’s where it goes awry.
You’ve gone over and over in your mind thinking about the bad experiences you have had with men, and the worse it was, the more it reinforces your “I’m not settling” mindset that you cement in your heart. Each memory becomes like a brick in a wall that builds around your heart to keep you from settling for the wrong guy. The problem is, it makes it impossible for the right guy to see you.
The RESULT – you ONLY attract men who are NOT RIGHT FOR YOU — men you definitely SHOULDN’T settle for.