- Start by losing the losersIf you want to find your soul mate, you must be available and not involved with people who aren’t right for you.
- OK, available now? Next… are you “ready?”Do you have any unfinished business that might sabotage your next relationship? Get it handled now!
- Next, make a list your top five requirementsYour requirements are the “must haves” in your relationship, otherwise you would not enter into the relationship or you would leave if you were in it. Make a list of your non-negotiable deal-breakers and vow not to get involved with anyone who doesn’t meet all five. Share your list with your closest friends and make them swear to tell you the truth and to lock you up if you get off-track.
- Good job. Now, let’s get crystal clear about this “dating” thingIf you want to avoid the deadly dating traps, focus on these Four Steps for Conscious Dating:
- Scouting: (more…)