When was the last time you stopped to ask yourself, “What do I desire?” and then paused long enough to really listen for the answer? I ask this right from the get-go because surprisingly, this relatively simple question is tough to answer. When I first begin to work with clients, it is important to gauge where they are at in their lives. Many of the clients I work with are professional women who are successful in almost all aspects of their lives. All, but their love life. I often hear that after working so many years climbing the corporate ladder or focusing on their family, not much time was left to focus on them.
And that was okay for them.
Sometimes our choices in life are a reflection of what is comfortable and easy for us rather than looking inward and making choices that truly fulfill ourselves deep in our soul, and heart of course.
So, I ask, “what do YOU desire?”
I like to do a little exercise with clients to really help them envision their dream life. Its called a Vision Board exercise. A vision board is a powerful tool that helps you visualize your desires and your dream life. When you create a vision board and place it in a space where you see it often, you essentially end up doing short visualization exercises where you’ll the Law of Attraction come into play by saying “Yes” to the abundance you’d like to receive (and deserve!).
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The Physical Touch love language is more about intimacy. It could be holding hands, laying your head on your partner’s shoulder, or simply a hug. Just like someone might feel loved after reading a note from their partner, another person may get that same feeling when their partner runs his or her hand through their hair.
Your partner’s primary love language is Quality Time, it means that they feel loved the most when you spend quality time with them. No brainer, right? Not so fast! Being around them just won’t cut. Neither will the standard movie night. Why? Because quality time is way more than just time, it’s attention. In fact, this love language should probably be renamed to “Quality Attention”, but that doesn’t sound as good.
People whose primary love language is Acts of Service feel your adoration by the things you do. Actions that go above and beyond help them feel your love towards them. They can be things like mowing the lawn, doing the dishes, or getting up in the middle of the night to take care of the little one, letting you sleep. Anything that can make your partner feel appreciated or that can help make their life easier.
I know there are those of you going through a divorce, have lost a loved one, or have ended a long relationship and are spending their first Christmas without that partner.
Although being single during the holidays can be difficult or lonely, I don’t know if it’s ever as hard as the first one. I decided to share with you my experience of my first Christmas alone and how I got through it.