July 2, 2020

You’ve Always Had the Power

by Janet Tingwald in Dating, Relationship

I woke up with this message this morning and I wanted to share it with you. 

To all of the amazing women in the world. The time has come for women to claim their true power and contribute to the world in a way that we haven’t seen in centuries, maybe never. 

Ladies, when it comes to love and relationships, you have always had the power. Women are the Holy Grail that men seek. Men need our light, our softness, our sensuousness, to experience the world in a way that is different than they see it. 

For over 50 years, in an effort to break out of stereotypes and take our place at the table, we have rallied around the thought that men are bad and women are good. I get it, I was part of it. And, after decades of beating them down, we now have a world of disempowered men that are shut down and angry. What if you knew that it was men’s soul purpose to protect and provide for those in his “circle of love”? And yet, for decades they have been told that we don’t need them. They are only wanted, not needed. When men have to defend themselves from us they cannot be in a place to cherish and protect us. 

Look around at the power you have. We are the creators. Look at what we have created. Is this the world you want to live in?

Ladies, my message to you today is, you have it within you to change this. YOU ALREADY HAVE THE POWER.  But we can’t bring balance to our world without empowering men.

Did that scare some of you?  Did you stop breathing for a second at the thought of going back to what it has been?  A world where we were not safe?  I feel you.  

Ladies, this is about going forward with love. What would it be like to live among more empowered men? Men that can be our partners at work and at home.  

Ladies, you have that light in you that will welcome them in and show them the way. It is up to us to lead with love, compassion, and so important… boundaries.  

The opportunity we face is that many of us are disconnected from our light. We have lived and competed in the masculine world for so long we either don’t know we have a light, or have lost the connection to turn it on.  

Imagine for a minute, thousands of women with their internal, energetic ‘love light’ turned on acting as thousands of lighthouses calling men to the safety of home. Where we are all safe and loved. Where men can feel needed again and have purpose again. Where they now know how to stand by our side to change the world together. We don’t have to do it alone.

Now some of you may say, ugh!, just more that women have to do. Well, the one that leads is the one that knows the way. You know the way.  

Ladies, it is time for change. You hold the power. It’s just you. It’s your light. I want to help you find it again and turn your ‘love light’ back on or turn up the wattage to bring the love you have always wanted into your life and guide us into a better, more loving world.  

Will you join me in changing the world? 

If this resonates with you and you want more, or if it irks you and you want to have a dialog, I welcome both.  

I want to invite you to join me in my private Facebook Group, Relate, Date and Mate – where I will be talking about this topic more and we can privately explore it together.   Just click the link above and join me and the other ladies for support and conversation. 

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